In order to manifest happiness, you need to first be clear on what makes you happy. Gabriel Union told an eye-opening story on Red Table Talk. She was working with a trainer and pushing the pedal to the metal, when her trainer asked her to name 3 things that make her happy. To her surprise she couldn’t come with an answer on the spot. The trainer then said, “how do you expect anyone else to make you happy, if you don’t know what makes you happy.” Tell the universe what you want, but first be clear about what it is you want.
Get Clear on Your Happiness
Become clear on what happiness looks like to you. Write down things that currently make you happy, and then follow up with things that you would be happy to receive in the future. How can you add more of what presently makes you happy into your life, and what is the plan to achieve more happiness in the future? Be very clear about this plan, but also make it simple and easy to glance at when you need a reminder.
Visualization
If your future happiness involves you working on the beach and sipping a virgin Pina Colada. Visualize this plan. What would you be working on? What would the waves sound like as they crash? Who would you be working for, or would you be working for yourself? Feel the sand between your toes as you write away on your laptop. Once you clearly know what will make you happy, take 15 mins a day to visualize yourself in this environment, with the smell, taste, sounds and all.
Action
Once you have your plan and feel yourself in the environment, it’s time for action. Sorry to say it, but manifestation doesn’t happen by sitting on your bum and waiting for your dream job to fall into your lap. You must take the steps to manifest this happiness yourself. Learn to enjoy the process. Learn to take steps that make your heart skip a beat, while also gaining confidence in each move you make towards your goal. When things get rough, don’t stop visualizing and stick to the plan. The things you want are just as possible as they are for the next guy/girl. If you really want this happiness, it can be in your hands, with a little help from the universe.
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